Let’s talk about pride and ego here. Pride serves the ego and I didn’t realize this till something happened recently. Ego is the enemy and that’s something that most people just don’t realize. They’re are cursed because they’ve got an extremely big ego or they’ve got way too much pride. It doesn’t matter what you’ve got. What matters is that you get rid of it. It’ll be painful if you can’t learn to progress in life. Once again ego is the enemy and 99% of the people do have a giant ego. They hear the truth from someone else and they feel offended because deep down inside they realize that it’s true. So they hate on the other person instead of learning a valuable lesson.
Perception is something that can make or break you. Perception can be your best friend or your worst enemy. Most people don’t get this. Something happens in life and they’re not able to reflect on it. They act like victims and they slowly but surely get more and more depressed. Life will feel like a living hell if you don’t act upon your own life. Once again: perception can make or break you. I’ll use my own life to show you what I mean. Most people assume that I’m someone special because I’m doing things that they can’t. Well they assume that they can’t. They’re also afraid to do it. Fear is what’s holding them down but that same fear is motivating me.
Are you grateful every single day? Most people aren’t since they’re already angry and depressed as soon as they get up. Being grateful is also extremely hard since most people don’t see the point in doing so. They don’t understand how powerful it actually is. But most people don’t even get how powerful forgiveness can be so you shouldn’t be surprised here. Sounds great Alex. What other things do I need to know? Well:
Many people told me that they assume that I think that my way is the only way. That’s plain wrong but they don’t get why I write like this. I write about my experiences and how I see those things right now. Some people can have other opinions or other views but that doesn’t mean that they’re wrong. That makes life just so interesting. I like to break the rules and beat the fools but not everybody is a fan of this kind of mindset.
There are a lot of people who never want to leave their comfort zone. It’s all fine as long as they don’t complain about it. You’re in charge of your own life so you’ve got to find a way to get the most out of your life. It sounds easy because it really is that easy. You don’t have an opponent in life, it’s just you vs you.
Have people ever called you unworldly? People have called me unworldly multiple times lately. This Sunday my family asked my opinion about the new leader of France. They mentioned his name but I had no clue who they were talking about. They all laughed at me and called me unworldly. I wasn’t surprised by this reaction to be honest. People like to feel superior or smarter than other people just to boost their ego. They even mocked me a bit but I can’t blame them, I was like this as well. But I changed overtime while I was learning some life lessons. I still think that last year was one of the best years of my life and it’ll only become better and better.
I learned to stop making excuses and that alone makes life a lot easier. I could grow as a person and that’s something that most people can’t do after a certain age. So I’m going to prove that most people aren’t unworldly. Some just have an obsession that takes over their whole life. This makes sure that you just don’t care about anything else. Most people just don’t get it. Or they don’t want to get it. That’s another option as well.
I mentioned that boys make excuses while men don’t (read it here). Now I’m going to dive a little bit deeper into this subject. People like to come up with excuses for literally everything. Even things like IIFYM (If It Fits Your Macros) sounds like an excuse to me. This makes sure that you can eat French fries all day as long if it fits your macros. It’s a new popular diet these days. It’s just an excuse to eat unhealthy and be in shape. I can guarantee you that your health will suffer in the long run. Why don’t you just eat a cheat meal instead? You’ll enjoy it a lot more. Just remember that moderation is the key.
Have you ever been in conversation where people didn’t go beyond the small talk? There’s a reason why these conversations are so damn boring and don’t last that long. They address topics which are too obvious to talk about. A lot of people like to talk about the weather but everybody can see and feel that it’s cold. It’s really not a big deal. You just know that there’s an awkward silence coming ahead when people start to talk about the weather. I noticed that a lot of normal people like to do small talk. These people try to talk with me but the conversations doesn’t last that long since they ask question that can be answered with just a single word. I’m not going to talk about the upcoming weather. That’s a waste of time and far from interesting. But why can’t people go beyond the small talk?
Losers focus on winners, winners focus on winning. Have you ever heard this saying? You have haven’t you?! Normal people like to focus on others. They do it all the time, those people like to gossip and they don’t realize that they’re poisoning their own mind. Maybe this is the reason why so many people like to watch reality shows. They can gossip about it all day long. I’m not claiming that the people who participate in this show are winners but it was a clear example. Can you guess what’ll happen to these people who constantly focus on others? They remain losers for as long as they do it.
Most people try to avoid temporary jobs because they’re afraid of uncertainty. I love doing temporary jobs since I know when they’ll end. So I make sure that I give everything that I’ve got when I have to work but I’m out as soon as the contract ends. I use my time off wisely to work on my blog and train but that’s something that most people neglect. Some call me a loser that doesn’t want to work but that’s not true. I want to work but I want to make sure that I’m able to train as well. Most people give up everything for their job but they regret it anyways. What’s the point in doing that?
I’m kidding there’s nothing wrong with the educational system. There’s something seriously wrong with the educational system. Yeah I get it you just want to bitch about the fact that I’m a college drop out. But does this mean that I’m dumb? You might reconsider this thought. I mean it’s arrogant because you’re assuming that you’re better than me because you’ve got a degree. Your thinking is ego driven and that’s where it all goes wrong. Your ego is your worst enemy. You need to realize that it’s holding you down but can you guess what you’ll need to do? That’s right, you’ll need to let go of your ego. Maybe you should read Ego Is The Enemy. Anyway let’s take a look at what’s wrong with the educational system.