Browsing Category

Motivation

Are you craving for the weekend? That’s no bueno

Have you ever noticed that people get overly excited for the weekend? I've seen the same shit over and over again on Instagram. Stuff like "it's Friyay".

Have you ever noticed that people get overly excited for the weekend? I’ve seen the same shit over and over again on Instagram. Stuff like “it’s Friyay” and so on. Most people are just tired from a whole week at work but there’s a catch.  They aren’t tired because they worked hard. Those people are mostly busy instead of productive. They’re sitting down all day or do the same thing over and over again. Which is boring and makes you want to sleep if you ask me. I can describe every single day of most people without even trying hard. Here we go. Continue Reading

Unhappiness can make you do great things

A long time ago I wrote a post about unhappiness and how it can make you extremely stupid things. Unhappiness can wreck your whole life and I'm here to help

A long time ago I wrote a post about unhappiness and how it can make you extremely stupid things (read it here). It was a top 10 post for a very long time as far as I remember. Unhappiness can wreck your whole life and you’ll be the victim of your own dumb behavior. This can result in overconsumption of booze or drugs. You wouldn’t be able to get your shit together because you aren’t facing your problems the right way. You aren’t showing what you’re made off and that’s the reason why you’re acting this dumb.

Unhappiness made me almost do the dumbest thing in life and that’s committing suicide. I was beat down to the ground and saw no way of getting back up. Luckily I didn’t perform the act and used my unhappiness in a different way. I used it as a way to change my whole life. I could have stopped after I had beaten my depression. You can read here how I did it but I didn’t want to stop there. There was a point where I realized that I wanted to get more out of life.

Unhappiness can be your biggest fuel

My depression is the first example of the fact that unhappiness doesn’t necessarily have to be negative. It’s something that can drive you to become the best version of yourself. Believe me, it’s possible to become the best version of yourself but you’ve got to put in the time and the work.

Most people don’t believe me but I really believe that everybody can reach their full potential but most people have one big issue they can’t conquer. You just need to reach a point where you really sick of your current situation. That’s your turning point.

Unhappiness can lower your self- esteem big time

Most people are extremely insecure about their appearance or potential. This combination can be a killer and is something that needs to be addressed as soon as possible. It’s all in your head and that’s something that most people don’t even realize.

The person who says “I can” and “I can’t” are both usually right. Sounds like a dumb motivational line but this line is right. You poison your mind by telling yourself you can’t and this result in the fact that you fail. The hardest part is that you get a complete wrong image of yourself because you’re lowering your self- esteem every damn time you do this.

It would be pretty dumb to ignore this fact and pretty damn foolish to keep on doing it. It’s always better to make a change but are you prepared to do it? Just use your mind because it’s the most powerful supplement on this earth.

Unhappiness: what doesn’t kill you makes your stronger

Life is all about perception. You can label a situation as either good or bad. So learn to master the art of turning the odds into your favor. What doesn’t kill you really makes you stronger. Most people just die mentally after a setback. Not literally off course but most people never recover from a setback. This is something that shouldn’t occur in this day and age anymore. Those people don’t realize that the cure for the pain is always in the pain.

This may be a lot to process but realize that it’s a long process. Change never happens overnight.

In conclusion: unhappiness should be your stepping stone and not something that holds you down.

Get a free audio book and a 30 day trial

Subscribe if you haven’t already

It’s now possible to follow me on Patreon as well. It’s a place where you can support me for all the free content that I share.

You can also follow me on snapchat for a look behind the scenes. My username is alexdw92

Till next time

Alex

Stuck in a rut? Why don’t you follow your gut?!

Are you stuck in a rut? Why don't you follow your gut?! No seriously why don't you do it?! The past few months a lot of people have asked for my advice.

Are you stuck in a rut? Why don’t you follow your gut?! No seriously why don’t you do it?! The past few months a lot of people have asked me advice because they felt stuck. They didn’t know what to do. They all had one thing in common. Those people were stuck in a rut. So I gave them some advice and most of them told me the same. They all asked me the following question: “Alex why do you always make things so easy?!” Well my friend that’s because they’re actually that easy. You just turn it into some rocket science project which makes it impossible to solve. Just stick to the basics in life, those are hard enough to master on their own. Still stuck in a rut? Let me help you.

Well I’m going to help you a bit. I can’t the problem itself off course. That’s your job!

Continue Reading

Save your drama for your mama

Could you please save your drama for your mama? Most people can produce a lot of drama in a day and it's pretty exhausting to be honest.

Could you please save your drama for your mama? Most people can produce a lot of drama in a day and it’s pretty exhausting to be honest. They should rename Queens to Drama Queens and invite all the toxic people over there. I would never visit that place. There would be too much negativity. But why do people turn into drama queens? That’s a pretty intriguing question isn’t it? Well I’ll try to explain it to you. Continue Reading

Single? Stop whining and start reading!

Are you single? That's great! Right? Don't tell me that you're crying because you're alone. Don't tell me that you need a girl to be happy

Are you single? That’s great! Right? Don’t tell me that you’re crying because you’re alone. Don’t tell me that you need a girl to be happy. I really hate people who claim that they need someone else to be happy. It’s bullshit. How can you make someone else happy if you can’t make yourself happy? Do you even realize how stupid this sounds? I seriously hope you do. Now being single is not that bad if you know how to make the most of it and I might surprise you with what I’m about to say.

Being single doesn’t mean that you’re chasing girls 24/7. This is still my most popular blog to this day on. It doesn’t mean that you fuck tons of women every day. Oh it doesn’t mean that you go out every single day to end up hammered with a girl in bed. That’s all a waste of time. It’s pretty unhealthy as well. Continue Reading

Freedom became a hollow word. Let me explain.

Do you know what freedom means? Most people don’t and I witnessed it live. I recently went to a bookstore, don’t act suprised you know I like to read.

Do you know what freedom means? Most people don’t and I witnessed it live. I recently went to a bookstore, don’t act suprised you know I like to read and I saw something interesting when I got out of the store. I saw a girl with the word “freedom” tattooed on her forearm. Crazy right? I was going to address her until I heard her conversation over the phone. She had a lousy job, boyfriend and so on. She clearly wanted freedom but was a victim of her own life. I don’t know if she realized it but she was smiling less and less the longer she called.

We’re all craving for freedom but 99% will never be free. The majority of people will work till they can retire and that’s when the regret starts to hit them. Most people aren’t the hero of their own movie.

But what’s the reason that only 1 % gets to be actually free while the rest gets back up to get to a lousy job again?

Are you craving for freedom?

The answer is simple.

The answer is FEAR. Fear is the thing that stands between you and a better life. It’s a real dream killer but you can also use it as fuel. That’s something that most people don’t realize. It’s not real and it should be used as fuel.

Too many people are living their lives as victims and not as doers. You got to earn the freedom instead of wanting it. You got to just do it instead of begging for it.

You’ll need to get out of your comfort zone.

Embrace adversity.

Deal with failure.

Show what you’re made off.

But in the end you’ll get freedom. Nothing in life is given everything is earned. The only gift that you’ll ever receive is your life and that’s where it ends.

Don’t rely on luck to get the freedom.

Rely on will and skill. Rely on yourself.

So freedom is what you want?

So freedom is what you want? Work hard and work evenharder for a long period of time. Working hard will get you the freedom you’re craving for.

Don’t be like 99% of the people, they go their whole life to the same job and you know what they’ve got in common? They look dead in their eyes. It’s like they lost their souls.

You’ll have to deal with tons of hate but do you want to end up as a part of the walking dead? Do you want to look like a soulless creature? Do you want to pop anti- depressant your whole life? Have you even thought about this?

Do you want to be the one that feels cheated by life? Do you want to complain for the rest of your life?

Hard work is what it takes but are you willing to pay the price?

That’s the million dollar question.

Freedom is waiting for you on the other side of the cliff. You just have to prepare to take a big jump.

Take the jump.

Get a free audio book and a 30 day trial

Subscribe if you haven’t already

It’s now possible to follow me on Patreon as well. It’s a place where you can support me for all the free content that I share.

You can also follow me on snapchat for a look behind the scenes. My username is alexdw92

Till next time

Alex

 

So tell me why are you waiting on the perfect Monday?

So was yesterday your perfect monday? Most people don't even realize what a perfect Monday is but they all hope for it though.

So was yesterday your perfect Monday? Most people don’t even realize what a perfect Monday is but they all hope for it though. The perfect Monday goes as follows. You plan to change your whole life. You plan it all out and you just have to start on Monday. Why Monday you ask? Well because that’s just the perfect day off course. Who would make drastic changes on a Tuesday or even a Friday?! That’s just impossible! Society tells you to start on Monday so you start on Monday. That’s how most people think but I hate to disagree with you on this one. Okay I actually don’t. I don’t like to follow the herd.

I guess that the start of a new week has something to do with this whole hype. The perfect Monday is the magical day that never seems to arrive. The struggle is real on this one. Continue Reading

Balance is the key to a happy life

balance

You want to have a happy life don’t you? Well you’ll need to be able to find balance. But I can guarantee you that it’s harder than it seems. It’s easy to write about it but finding the balance itself is harder at times. You see life is just a series of highs (happy times) and lows (less pleasant times). Some people get caught up in the lows and those people get stuck in a rut. Those are the people who feel cheated by life. Life however didn’t cheat them, those people cheated on their selves. They couldn’t find balance so they fell down and never got up.

It’s not their fault. They just don’t teach you this stuff in school. Luckily I’m here to help you. Continue Reading

Why you’re facing regret and what to do about it

Are you facing regret? Most people face it all the time. They should have done this or that. Those people are living in or even stuck in the past.

Are you facing regret? Most people face it all the time. They should have done this or that. Those people are living in the past and are never present in the moment. Those are the people who would like to go back in time and give tons of advice to their younger self. Can you guess what I would tell my younger self? Nothing! I would just grab a chair and some popcorn and laugh at all my mistakes. I didn’t end up to bad and all those actions made me who I am today.

I’m happy with who I am so why would I try to change it? That would be really dumb! Sure I faced some bad times but we all did. Some people break and others get stronger after those periods. I suggest that you try to become a better version of yourself instead of being miserable all the time.  So let’s take a look at why you’re facing regret and what to do about it off course.

Continue Reading

Hate your job? I’ve got some bad news for you then

Do you hate your job? Congratulations, you're just like most people. I would party all weekend because you're just like 99% of the people.

Do you hate your job? Congratulations, you’re just like most people. I would party all weekend because you’re just like 99% of the people who’re walking this earth. I was highly sarcastic for those who didn’t get it. Suck doesn’t it? But it’ll suck even more if you keep on reading. You’ll suddenly realize that you hate a lot more than your just job. It’s time that you leave your comfort zone before it’s too late. Yes you’ve read it correctly. You’re in a comfort zone right now. You got used to being unhappy and you don’t even realize it. You can complain all you want but that’ll solve jack shit. You can come up with tons of excuses but that won’t solve a single problem.

But don’t worry you’re not doomed. You just need to realize some things and you’ll take action in no time. But Alex what if I still don’t take action after reading this post? Well that means that you’re clearly not miserable enough to take action. Unhappiness can either motivate you to make a change or make you do extremely dumb stuff. I guess you’re comfortable enough to do the latter. Continue Reading