This won’t be like most of my posts. I just wanted to thank all the people and share a short message. I usually reflect on a lot of stuff in most of my posts. That’s why it’s so easy to write so much. I’m doing it quite a while now and it almost seems like yesterday. As a result I always get the same questions over and over again. “Hey Alex, how many visitors do you have per day?” “Hey Alex, how much money have you already made?” People only seem to care about numbers these days. But I don’t. I seriously had no clue what my most popular blog was until the day before yesterday. My most popular post is about the fact that you shouldn’t chase girls.
Do you even listen? I bet that most guys who’ve been in a relationship will recognize this sentence. For the ones who never heard it: congratulations, you’re an emphatic listener. But most people are far from emphatic listeners. They listen with the intent to respond instead of the intent to listen. How do you mean Alex? Well these people are judgmental instead of curious. They just want to share what they already know. Their whole way of thinking is ego driven. This results in the fact that these people aren’t able to learn something new but it doesn’t stop there. It can kill your marriage, friendships and so on.
I mean who want to be friends or in a relationship with someone who tries to force his/her way of thinking onto others?! It just doesn’t work that way and that’s what people don’t get. It’s funny that I write about this matter since most people claimed in the past that I couldn’t listen. There are still people who claim it but they just don’t get that I can’t give a fuck about everything. Those people are mostly the ones that try to change my mind about something.
People always wonder how I keep writing all those blog posts (this is number 206). It isn’t something magical to be honest. There are bloggers who release more blog posts than me. Some release 2 a day but that’s overkill in my opinion. Some people struggle more than enough to finish one blog post. I tend to write pretty long ones so one a day suffice. Don’t worry this won’t be a long one. I’m a bit overtrained. I’m only thinking about sleep right now. Now let’s take a look at how I do it and why most people can’t do it for such a long period of time.
I knew I was in trouble when I said the following sentence: You live life …… and then you die. I shared this sentence with someone who clearly didn’t have a clue that he was going to die. That’s when shit hit the fan. Most people deny it and that’s just wrong. But I did it as well in the past. I was clearly a bit delusional because I never thought about dead. I just figured that it would happen one day. This was clearly a bit arrogant since that one day could be tomorrow, next week… You just don’t know. People avoid thinking about the unknown and that’s why they probably avoid the fact that they’re going to die.
Do you want to live a happy and healthy life? Most people want to live a life just like that but most people aren’t able to do it. The reality is that I shouldn’t even devote a blog post to it since we all know the answer on how to do it. Just ask several people on how you should live a happy and healthy life. They’ll almost all tell you the same stuff. We all know it but most of us don’t do it. It’s strange isn’t it? That we’re smart enough to figure it out but ignorant when it comes to our actions. We as people tend to make up excuses for why we can’t do something. That’s extremely dangerous since you’re killing your own potential.
You’re shooting yourself in the foot and you don’t even realize it. I hate to break it to you but you are your own worst opponent. It’s all up to you. So you’re the one to blame if you can’t live a happy and healthy life. You and no one else. But don’t worry this blog post might help you get back on track. It’s never too late to change. It’ll just take time, effort and perseverance. All the things that make you uncomfortable as a human being.
Today we’re going to talk about your ex or exes whatever. I don’t care about other people’s love lives to be honest. I hope that they’re doing fine but I hate it when they start to brag or complain about their (past) relations. But I even hate it even more when they start to ask questions like: should I get back together with my ex. It’s like somebody has punched all the sense out of some people. Or they killed their brain cells because they’ve indulged too much alcohol. Seriously some people act like toddlers but they’re trapped in a grown up body. I seriously started to wonder if they would stop nagging if I’d give them a pacifier. Anyway I’m going to solve this issue once and for all.
So let me tell you how it’s going to go down. I’m going to tell you the truth and you won’t like it. You’ll be mad at me and even hate me but that’s okay. Just create a Facebook page where people can hate on me. Don’t forget to invite as much people as possible. Just make sure that you link to my blog. I would hate to miss an opportunity to promote my blog. Now that’s what I call the subtle art of not giving a flying fuck.
You probably think that I’m mad when I tell you that you should face struggle. Struggle isn’t that bad, it makes or breaks you. It all depends on how you deal with your adversity and if you ever learn anything from it. Do you think that a real man always gets lucky when he dates? The answer is simple: NO. There are some things you just can’t control and dating is the perfect example. People like to nag and complain when life gets a bit tougher. We’re all becoming spineless pussies that accept whatever comes around. We just let the problems keep on coming but we won’t learn anything if we don’t take action. You can’t sit down and watch life go by.
Are you the hero of your own movie? Wait what? I mean are you living the live that you’ve always imagined living? It’s easy if you have no clue on what you want in life. You can’t be disappointed if you haven’t got a goal in life. But would the hero of your own movie do nothing? Would the hero be someone who stays in bed all day? Would it be someone who doesn’t kick start his/her day the right way? I guess that we can conclude that the answer is no?!
Be curious not judgmental. It’s a simple quote by Walt Whitman but so many people don’t seem to get it. They’re part of the herd and the herd is pretty judgmental. Those people are the so called experts and can’t see the world from another perspective. Oh the “normal people” entertain me every time they speak or share their expertise. Those people wouldn’t even get the real meaning behind this quote. It means that you should be open minded instead of close minded. Still so many people are the latter. Let’s see how this can wreck your whole life and sometimes the life of others.
Have you noticed that almost all the modern day relationships are the same? There are some exceptions but a lot of people are still in a toxic relationship. The worst part is that they all assume that it’s normal. It’s a delusional way of thinking but it exists. Those people tend to give advice to others and it mostly doesn’t make any sense. The best worst advice that I’ve ever had was this: “you only know if you’re in a good relationship if you’re fighting/arguing all the time.” I responded that I didn’t want a good relationship if that was an indicator of the quality of the relation. I seriously even wonder how you can believe such a quote. That doesn’t sound right does it? But then it struck me. I suddenly realized where this misconception came from.