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June 2017

Do you want to be more interesting? Here’s how.

Most people aren't that interesting but they don't realize it. They keep on telling the same stories and they don't even realize it.

Most people aren’t that interesting but they don’t realize it. They keep on telling the same stories and they don’t even realize it. It’s freaking boring after a while. You can tell their stories after a while and that’s no fun at all. Those people are mostly bored all day and I don’t get how they do it. How can you be bored in this day and age? There are so many interesting things to learn and you waste your time by doing nothing. Or you waste all your time on social media what’s even worse. Social media is for little boys but not for real men.

Now I assume that you want to be more interesting? Let’s take a look at how you can do it. Continue Reading

Change will never happen overnight

Did you ever try to change your life? A lot of people ask me how I changed my life and how long it took. It didn't happen overnight I can tell you that.

Did you ever try to change your life? A lot of people ask me how I changed my life and how long it took. Well pain made sure that I had to rethink my whole life. There’s no secret or a hack here. Just intense pain and the fact that I reached a point where it was enough. Most people learn to live with the pain. There’s something seriously wrong when you’re having a burn out. That isn’t natural but it occurs more and more these days. My grandfather doesn’t even know what it is. It didn’t occur when he was younger. So people pop pills and claim that they feel better. But how can you feel better? Your body and mind gave you a sign that something had to change and you didn’t change anything. You just looked for some prescription drugs.

Can you guess what you did? You just tried to take the quick fix and it may work in the short run but it’ll fuck you up in the long run. Continue Reading

Do your surroundings really matter in life?

Do your surroundings really matter in life? A lot of people are asking this question lately because people misuse their surroundings to get nothing done.

Do your surroundings really matter in life? A lot of people are asking this question lately because people misuse their surroundings to get nothing done. They’re just coming up with excuses to postpone the things that they think they want to do. But do they really matter? Well yes and no to be honest. Your surroundings can put you in a comfort zone which is dangerous but in the end it’s all up to you. The fun thing is that most people assume that good surroundings are everything you need to succeed in life.  Continue Reading

Toxic friends vs good friends: which one do you have?

Do you have good friends or toxic friends? The answer might surprise you. You'll always have some toxic friend in your group.

Do you have good friends or toxic friends? The answer might surprise you. You’ll always have some toxic friend in your group so it’s better that you recognize them. Those people will use you when they need too and drop you when they want too. I have a small circle of friends and it’s my own choice. I don’t need that much friends to be honest. Most people are trying to be surrounded by people all the time and that’s why you can have some toxic friends. There’s a bigger chance that you’ve got them if you’ve got a big circle of friends. You’re completely fucked if you’re not able to be alone. 

You’ll try all sorts of escapism and you won’t even realize it. So let’s take a look on how you can recognize your good friends. Continue Reading

The bike analogy that’ll change your life forever

I went bike riding yesterday to visit my grandfather. I was looking to get into the red zone which means that I'll be exhaused to improve my endurance.

I went bike riding yesterday to visit my grandfather. I was looking to get into the red zone which means that I’ll be exhausted to improve my endurance. So most people will wonder how a bike ride can contain a valuable lesson. Most people don’t realize that you can learn something from everything you do. You just have to be present in the moment. It’s really addictive to learn every single day although most people hate it. That’s the fault of our educational system. 

People get dumb and dumber these days. It’s pretty sad to witness this whole trend. I’m pretty sure that some will even laugh at me when I would tell them that I learned a lesson from riding my bike. They can laugh all they want since I don’t care about the haters. Never return hate because the situation will only get worse. Continue Reading

You can’t outrun fear but can you conquer it?

Have you ever had to face fear? Sometimes there are little things that make us afraid but sometimes it'll be the big things

Have you ever had to face fear? Sometimes there are little things that make us afraid but sometimes it’ll be the big things. You’ll always have to face fear in life. It’s just a part of it but most people just freeze. They tend to overthink everything because they’re not brave enough. They avoid it because they’re afraid to leave the herd that’s called society. In every decision that you make there’s an element of fun. Find the fun part and you’ll don’t want to do anything else in life. You can even do shit jobs and make it enjoyable. Let me guide you through your own fear. Continue Reading

Karma will catch up with you and you deserve it

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We’ve all heard of karma but most people don’t know the real meaning of it. People talk about karma all the time in some weird ways. I’ve heard a lot that people will be hit by karma. It isn’t a material thing. It’s a guide on how to live a better life and most people just don’t get it. They don’t get it because they became dumber overtime. So I guess that you’re wondering what the real meaning behind karma is? It’s a bit like the law of sowing and reaping or action reaction. Something bad will happen to you when you do bad things. Or something good will happen to you when you do good things.

Will this always be the case? No you’ll still have losses in life. That’s inevitable but they shouldn’t define you as a person. I guess that the smart ones already know why I chose this particular title. Others will assume that bad things will happen to certain people.

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Nobody is self made even if they claim to be

Have you ever heard someone claim that they're self made? There are some people who claim that but those people mostly had rich parents.

Have you ever heard someone claim that they’re self made? There are some people who claim that but those people mostly had rich parents. Rich parents are a freaking curse but most people don’t realize it. They focus on the bling bling and forget about the rest. They just focus on the good and neglect the bad. Those people mostly don’t want to work hard while there’s nothing more addicting than hard work. So does being self made really exist? Arnold Schwarzenegger wrote the foreword for Tim Ferris his book Tools Of Titans.  He claimed that he wasn’t self made at all and that was an eye opening vision. You see I never considered myself as self made but most people claim that I did it all on my own. That’s not true. Nobody ever did it on his own. We’re just too blind to see it. Continue Reading

A win or a loss in life shouldn’t define who you are

In life you either win or lose it's really that simple. Well that's what most people assume. But is it really that simple?

In life you either win or lose it’s really that simple. Well that’s what most people assume. But is it really that simple? People hate losing because they can’t wrap their head around it. People always focus on the win but that comes with a potential side effect. Most people keep losing at one point in life so they start to focus on wins from the past. They brag about the things that they’ve got achieved and can’t move forward anymore. These people stop growing and won’t achieve anything if they’re not breaking this vicious cycle. You need to be present in the now. People have the wrong approach when it comes to a win or a loss. I’m here to teach you how to win and lose in life. It’s not the approach that most people take but I don’t like following the herd. Continue Reading

Travelling is the most subtle form of escapism

Have you noticed that a lot of people like travelling a lot? The more the better but most of them don't get that it's a form of escapism.

Have you noticed that a lot of people like travelling a lot? The more the better but most of them don’t get that it’s a form of escapism. I devoted a whole post to this matter but now there’s more. The bottom line is that it’ll do you more harm than good but people neglect this. They just keep on travelling just to escape their own lives. A lot of people have to escape reality since sometimes it can be pretty harsh. I mean how many times have you heard that people are going to travel to find the real them. They need a foreign country to get to know the real them. I get those people because most people are social media zombies.

You can’t get to know the real you if you’re constantly on social media or indulging alcohol till you pass out every single weekend. But travelling remains a form of escapism and here’s why. Continue Reading